should i trust him or not?

prelandra14 · Joined: 07 Jan 2009 Posts: 18 Location: Fresno

My boyfriend's friend wanted to ask if she could have sex with him, and i was like OF COURSE NOT! I mean seriously who would do that? But anyway i asked my boyfriend if he would if i let her but he said he wouldn't do that and he promised he wouldn't. But anyway my boyfriend's friend keeps asking me over and over again and now she wants to meet me so she could ask me in person. And i'm scared cause she's going to sleep over at my boyfriend's house. My boyfriend's mom knows her so yea she told my boyfriends friend that she can sleepover. My boyfriend told me he would've told her no, but my boyfriend's friend decided to ask his mom, and she said yes cause no one is going to be home anyways. If ONLY i could but they've known each other since like forever, and his mom doesn't like me, she called me a whore. But yea, i tell him not to do anything stupid, then he says don't worry i won't. But i am like freaking out right now. He asked me if i trusted him and i was like yea i do, but think about it. . . A guy and a girl in one house? I hate thinking about it, i can't lose him. I've been best friends with him and we've been going out for a year. Can i trust him????? Confused

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Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

I think you can trust him, but this girl is not to be trusted but your hands are tied you have expressed how you feel and your boyfriend has expressed how he feels and if he acts on impulse than that is something you two need to deal with.

I had some good advice once "Don't put yourself in a situation that could lead to trouble" Her sleeping there could lead to trouble. Is it just one night? Why is she so into him? are you going to meet with her?

prelandra14 · Joined: 07 Jan 2009 Posts: 18 Location: Fresno

Well no i am not going to meet her. But anyway my boyfriend told me that yea he didn't and he wouldn't. I am so glad Very Happy

But he did tell me what went on when they were in the house. He told me she'd be putting her hands all over him. And she walked in on him while he was taking a shower, but he told me he swore to god that he didn't do anything. He told me that he wasn't going to talk to her anymore.
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Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

glad to hear that you and your boyfriend have a strong relationship.