hi,pls help me on my relationship with my wife

[Jennifer]

i didn't tell you to forget and forgive that is going to take time and your wife is going to go on living her life as it seems until you do. you might forgive for forgetting is very hard to do. the trust is broken and that is something that needs to be mended and it will take time, just doesn't happen

[veer]

hi,
ya i undersatnd but i want to come out of all thsi problems i hope there will be any way to come out from all this .
as you told me few days back that i should start any passionate work or any passoinate hobby .but i m not geting any idea what to start ?
pls if its posible give me some idea or any web site or any counsiler help who can guide me in this ways.

bcz from child hood my life was very diffrent so i could not made any hoobi .
when i was samll @ age of 15 . i lost my fater so all responbilty came on me & my mother .

i statred working @ the age of 18 & i was studing also .
other family & social responciblity also i kept @ youg age.

my father & mother did not teach me or our life style was not like that
so i have no come accross any activity or hobby or speritual activity nothing.

then i got married & now all problems of life started in my life.

i have not developed any hobbie so pls help me how to develop any activity or hobby in life . how to start it ?

pls if its posible give me some idea or any web site or any counsiler help who can guide me in this ways.

if you want my detials tehn ican provide you .
my age is 33yrs

[Jennifer]

write a list of things that you like to do? and then from that list see if any of them can develop into hobbies.

[veer]

hi thnx, i will try it

[veer]

hi,
many days passed but still m not in mood,
i dnt talk to my mom,sis,wife
i dnt knw what is happen to me.
i dnt knw what is wrong with me,

when i m going in jogers park for walk or any other place like a shpoing mall etc and when i saw any good looking girl or women i just thougt that
she will give me love and i will njoy with her.

each and every moment i m searchng of love.
i want some one who will love me a lot .
with whom i can njoy a lot

realy i m fadup ,
mam pls look in to my problems and help me out.

[veer]

hi,
mam pls just chk my mails & try to help me out of all this.

u have lot of exeperince, daily u r helping many people,
i hope that my problems is not new for you .
then pls tel me .what is solution of all this.

after so many days also still 2day also i m not able to
foget that girl ( my wife's cousine sis ) .each and every moment
i m missing that girls.

i want that girl in my life .which is not posible
she was giving me lot of love .
we were just taking on SMS only for abt nearly 6 months but in that
6 months i talk to her everythng and she gave me lot of comfert & love
to me .

and now i want same thing in actul in my life.
pls help me .

tel me sometng, whats your experice is teing you on my problems.

[Jennifer]

you need to move on and find either happiness in your relationship or end your relationship and find some else that makes you happy