What do I do?

md29 · Joined: 26 Jan 2009 Posts: 2

So I live on an island and met this guy who lives here also and we hit it off. We dated for 4 months and then it was time for us to go back to the states for 3weeks. He flew to visit me during the last week. Throughout our visit he was acting very strange and hiding his phone. When we got back to the island I looked and saw he was texting another girl asking her on a date. I told him and we decided to try and make it work. I was concerned he was still talking to her so a week later I looked again and he was. She was in the states. When I confronted him he broke up with me because I looked in his phone.
I miss him.. I know now they aren't talking anymore. I don't know what happened in the states nor do I want to know, I just want him back. I tried the crazy ex gf thing where we cry to them and text them and call and I knew it wasnt going to work. I driven him further away. Now we see eachother at least 3 times a day at school and we say hi everytime. I haven't called or talked to him for 3 days now and I really miss him and wish there was something I could do to fix this.

Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

Let me get this straight. He was cheating on you, you caught him, he got defensive and broke up with you and now you want him back?

Why?

md29 · Joined: 26 Jan 2009 Posts: 2

I honestly don't know. Before any of this happened it was amazing.. I fell so hard for him and I just keep thinking about how much I want him back. I see him multiple times a day and that is the part I am having the most trouble with.

Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

Love is grand when it is good and it is just as hard when it is gone. I know you do not want to hear this, but you will get over him and move forward and hopefully learn from this. You did not do anything wrong. The only thing that will heal the hurt is time.

ind3p3d3nt · Joined: 14 Jun 2009 Posts: 13 Location: california

i understand what your going through i just split with my bf two days ago and it is agonizing without him today was the first day i left messages on his vm crying and telling him it was my fault but he hasnt returned any of my messages so i guess that is that it maybe its time to move on for the both of us..... its gonna be hard but im sure we can both get through it Wink

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