We're falling apart for some reason

[pengrim]

we've been going out three years. i thought we had a happy life started, but in the last few months it's started going completely south. it doesn't seem like there are enormous issues, no cheating i'm aware of, we're pretty open communicators, that sort of thing.

the worst issue on my end is that she seems more concerned with education and travel than getting out of debt and contributing to the financial part of our relationship. she seems upset with a lot of little (to me) things, which in turn leaves me unhappy i'm making her unhappy. i'm so frustrated with the new negativity rut that i lose my patience more and more often.

so now we seem to be taking a break from one another, which i've never experienced before, and the distance seems to make things worse. i'm confident we want to be together, but everything's just disintegrating anyway.

any ideas what's going on? i'm at a loss.

[educatedleader]

Ask yourself this, can I live with out her? What attracted me to her? Why is she the one for me? Are the little things that she do that bad that I can not live with them, but yet can't live without them? And once you figure that out, you will know what to do.


Educatedleader