Trust issues

[mayra]

Hello everyone!!
I have a concern ??? I've been with my partner for 9 yrs we have 3 beatiful daughters. He works in the sales Industry were he has alot of lady clients which I never had a problem with until recent. I wet into his mailbox and found this e-mail where he's flirting back and forth. He was telling her how she's dated the wrong guys and that they should both have fun and even called her sweety, which is something he doesn't do with me? I fell that he has violated me & that he's obviously looking for something out there? I have mixed feelings at this point..I've confronted him and he told me that he thought the e-mail was funnny to him & never thought nothing bad of it. But then again when I confronted him he was really nervous. Please advice
I'm connfused. I never thought he would try to jepordise our family in this type of manner. [/b]

[Jennifer]

Is he trying to jeopordize your family? Could it just be a simple email? Sorry that this took so long to reply too.

[dream7girl]

Mayra,

You are right to be inssecure. Most affairs begin just like this. Talk to your husband about why you are feeling insecure, how easily it is for someone to drift away and ultimataely make the biggest mistake of their life. One of the best relationship books I have read is the Love Bank by Dr. Hartley. Sounds corney but honestly helped me and my husband a lot after his affair.