Someone please help me!!

[depess18]

hi my name is Ali!! iam 18 years i have a 2 year old dother i live with her dad i really love him i meet him when i was 14 years i came out preg when i was 15 hes the only man in my life and i refer that to hes the only guy that i had sex with...when i meetem he was only my friend so he use to tell me about hes ex girlfriend i would hear him but then we got in love and he told me if a wanted to be hes love and i said yes well then when i was 16 pregnant a friend of hes send me pictures of him and hes ex having sex and i got really sick.... he cheated on me before i was pregnant...well when my baby was one year i move in with him so now i have almost 2 years living with him next thing u know i check the history of the computer and hes searching for her in my space looking at her pictures and that hurts me alot because i remember what happend 4 years ago i start thinking about it it hurts alot and i think he still loves her or something, what do u think?i told him why is he searching for her and he said "Just because" but he doesnt understand that i tried almost for 2 years to get over what he did to me and when iam forgeting about it hes looking for her again tell me what can i do? what do u think about it? please help me!! since i saw that he was searching for her i had been really sad yesturday i talk to him and he told me he doesnt care about her no more and i asked him why? and he said to look at her pictures and i said for what ? and he didnt say nothing i dont know maybe iam taking this to another level but it really hurts and he doesnt understand that......... do u think iam dramaticing? and u know what hes always telling me to stop eating because iam a lil overweight in the last month i lost 10 pounds but now that iam worried about that i start eating more...Sometimes i think that he doesnt like me b-cuz iam fat but since i meet him i have been like this he meet me like that..and hes ex its pretty and skinny... that the reason that i feel bad !!! well thanks 4 reading thiz i hope u could help me!!!

[Jennifer]

okay i'm going to say this and take it for what it is worth. guys hate nagging, I know what is right to do and what is wrong to do because of my background but at times in my own relationship i slip and do the nagging thing. I even know I am doing it and still do it.

Sounds as if your man is looking for an outlet and it would be better if you two could share that outlet instead of him keeping it from you. instead of focusing on the other woman focus on you and him and how you can appreciate each other.