Real connection or Sex???

lashae07 · Joined: 07 Dec 2008 Posts: 1

I'm a 19 year old female sophomore in college. I have been in two serious relationships in the last 5 or 6 years. The first relationship ended because I didn't want to have sex. The second relationship ended because it was based solely on sex. Now it's hard for me to start new relationships because I'm confused about what to do when the topic of sex comes up. I'm currently involved with someone that was primarily based only on sex but now he talks about having a serious relationship. I'm not sure if its based on sex or a real connection.

Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

Hey
Good for you to question what is going on, but you have to treat each relationship for what it is. You cannot blame the person you are with for your past relationships/mistakes. If you feel right and he feels right then go for it. The worst that can happen is you can get hurt when you always know that is a possiblitly.