Perfect Storm... where do I begin?

[Jennifer]

im not seeing any mixed messages, you say she hasn't said she doesn't love you anymore but she is telling you that she has been lonely for a long time and you are harping on the fact that she didn't tell you sooner, she is saying it now so what is going to happen from here? have you asked her flat out is it over?

as far as you doing secretary stuff, that is up to you if you want to continue. what are you working on in therapy? if it is for you and you are looking to change then it will work but if you just want her o change therapy is only a place to vent.

[heyho]

'harping'?

That seems rather harsh.

[Jennifer]

not meant to be just responding to what you said. if there is going to be a future with you two you will both need to listen and hear each other. doesn't matter that she is tellin you know she is communicating with you know and you might be to hurt to hear her.