Is It Me?

[blueangel28]

Ok so i need help my fiance and i have been together for almost two yars and in the beginning it was great until oct of last year. I caught him having inappropriate chat of a sexual content on his phone and exchange of explicit pictures. We tried to work through that but yet i keep finding things. pctures of other women alternate email addresses, things of that nature. He says he is not doing anything that i am over reacting. My instinct tells me that he is lying. Is It Me?

[Jennifer]

It is not instincts that is telling you that he is lying, you are finding facts that point that he is lying. The foundation of any relationship is trust and communication. Doesn't sound like you have that. Have you two been to counseling?

[blueangel28]

Not actual formal couseling he has been to counseling for his own issues like the fact that he is passive with passive aggressive tendencies? whatever that means. I try to talk to him about it but all he does is make up excuses and gets angry. He says that all i do is try to dig up stuff to end us. I feel so lost and confused right now.

[Jennifer]

being in a relationship does not fix problems that you have in your own life. Sounds like he has some work to do in order to grow as a person. How old are you guy?