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[AlwaysHurt1]

I have been dating a guy for 2 years and he somewhat remains in contact with his ex-girlfriend I truly and on accident read an email from her stating the he come down and see her.I wrote to her telling her I saw it and I wasn't pleased and then she told me that he could bring me with to go there and I think that is the most audatious attempt to save herself from getting chewed out further by me. I told her to back off but for some reason she can't get the hint. Is it wrong for me to tell her that I don't want her trying to worm herself into his and I's relationship?

[Jennifer]

this is an issue with your relationship not her. he shouldn't be keeping things from you and should have told you. it is about trust and communication. she has nothing to do with it. if your relationship is secure this would not be a big deal.