Im ruining the best thing thats ever happened to me...

[Brittney8]

me and my boy friend have been together all for about 2 years. we have broke up once and got back together and a few little spits here and there and back together. but the problem is Me. im overly jealous and i over analyze everything too much! i trust him 100% but he dosent feel like it because im very jealous and angry towards certian things. but i do trust him not to do anything because i knw he would never. i just dont know why i have a hard time trusting him. hes the best thing thats ever happend to me and ive almost lost him recently and still. im fighting so hard!! my jealousy has got to stop and i have to relax and stop nit picking over everything but i dnot know how. i also cannot control my emotions and feelings and thats alot of our problem as well. i let my emotions and feelings take over when ever they come up and it causes huge problems and fights. i love him so much and we want to be together, but inorder for that to happen, i have to change how i am about this stuff. please if someone can help me, id greatly appreciate it! i love him to much to lose him for good and im doing everything in my power to try and change and seek help and to better myself so we can finally be happy again.
if i wasnt clear on details or so jsut let me know and please!! help me!!!!

[Jennifer]

jealousy is due to lack of self esteem which has to do more with what is going on with you than with him. work on yourself to feel better about who you are, don't focus so much on his stuff and you will start this process.