I need to fix this whats wrong with me

Kazuki · Joined: 14 Feb 2009 Posts: 2 Location: united states

My boyfriend does pot.
I love him alot.
And I don't want to see him like this anymore.
I want to help him with his problems.
But he won't talk.
He avoids it.
How do I help him be him again...
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Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

Does he know that pot is affecting him? The best you can do is either try to understand him? or do what you need to do for himself. If he does not think that there is a problem then to him then there is no problem

Yes, you can get addicted to pot and it can mess up your life. If he loves the pot more than himself, he will choose the pot.

I know its not what you want to hear, but it is the truth.

Kazuki · Joined: 14 Feb 2009 Posts: 2 Location: united states

ok so...
Is there anyway at all to get to him..
How do I talk to some one who is so fucked up because of the people in his life..
When He just says theres nothing to talk about.
yet he admits he has alot to say..

I know he loves I can tell by his smile how he curls to me when he tired ..
I want him to be alright.
IS there anykind of program out there.
for people who cant afford to pay to be seen for help,counseling..
at his age hes going to be 21 in april...
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Jennifer · Site Admin Joined: 27 May 2007 Posts: 2356

he is fortunate to have you and sounds as if you are a great support, he has to want to get help first. there are not really any programs that i know for free so if he wants to talk, he is going to have to start with you and hopefully you can guide him the rest of the way.