Going Through A Bad Breakup

[Soy2Caliente4Tu]

My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and said he was having family problems but that we would get back togher in the summer when things should be all better. Well our one year anniversary would have been on June 20. I didn't epect to talk to him but I texted him telling him if he ever needed anything that I'm always there for him and that I love him. He texted back saying that he's moving half way across the US, that we will never speek or see each other again and that he "never wants to look back, and never will" I'm heart broken. He was my first and we were going to get married I dont know what to do anymore

[Jennifer]

I'msorry to hear about your boyfriend leaving. Even as hard as it is to accept now, once you heal you will realize that he was not "the one". So, do what you need to do, eat ice cream, exercise, etc and be upset, then once you feel better you can really find what you are looking for and someone that wants and is ready to be with you.

[Soy2Caliente4Tu]

I just dont understand why its like he continues to call me or text me and try to make things sound like we will be the same again and then tries to beak my heart again. I tried to be with another guy while he was dealing with famliy problems and that guy left me saying that i was still in love with my ex and wont talk to me anymore either...I just feel like my heart is being walked all over

[Jennifer]

Sometimes people just do not know how to come out and say what they feel.That is another reason that he is not the one. Give yourself time before you start dating. Seems like you want some closure and you are going to have to find that one through healing. Sounds like you can do this and will be better off for it in the long run.