Fiancee needs space

[jimmyg1]

My Fiancee has asked for a break. She is stressed out over family, money, her job( works for her sister), training for a marathon and me asking to see more of her.That is when she asked for a break,but since says she has found clarity in her life??????She has put up an huge wall and shows little emotion when we last talked(2 months).We have been together 4 years, engaged 1.I love her and grew very close to her kids.I feel that I have lost a best friend, a partner and a family.It is so hard to cope,I want her back, i miss her family. 99.9% of time we had a great time.She didnt like that I am semi-retired and using the time to raise my sonand I guess the advice I gave her about parenting her children didnt help. She was co-dependant from her first marriage so I thought I was helping. How do I get her do drop the emotional wall she has built up against me?

[Jennifer]

sounds as if she took a break from you not her life. I would suggest if she is open to it, hashing out your issues the ones you discussed and see if you too have a hope for a relationship or not. If not and she is done, then you can move on and heal, but this uncertanity is not healthy for you and for her and if you were close to her kids and she was close to yours it is not fair to them either.

I realize that it might be scary to push her to make a decision about your relationship but how ever long you have been on break should be enough time to know if you want to be with someone or not.