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john galt
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:27 pm Post subject: Xdress |
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Hello, first time here. I am a closeted Cd. Am married with 2 children
I am feeling more and more wasted in my life. I feel like a low life and I shouldn't be doing what I am doing. |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:47 pm Post subject: |
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| sorry, just need to know what we are talking about cd is cross dresser? are in closet from your family as well? |
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john galt
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:48 pm Post subject: |
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| crossdresser |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:14 pm Post subject: |
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| what about your wife, does she know? |
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john galt
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Posted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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| no |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:04 am Post subject: |
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| what do you want to accomplish? |
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john galt
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:20 am Post subject: |
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| I want to understand where and why I get these feelings, why I do what I do and can I ever enjoy what I do in the closet. |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Are you under the impression that there is something wrong with you? Do you want to be able to enjoy fully who you are or want it to stop? |
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john galt
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:59 pm Post subject: |
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| Well I guess, I was made to feel guilty when I was in school. |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 3:37 pm Post subject: |
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| not the talker are you? were you forced in to getting married? do you love your wife and want to be with her? |
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john galt
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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| No I was not forced into marriage, in fact my wife asked me. I do love her very much and I do want to be with her. I also would like her to understand where I am and maybe become a participant. |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:43 am Post subject: |
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| is that a possiblity? your wife understanding |
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john galt
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 10:23 am Post subject: |
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| I doubt it it. I guess in my mind I would like to imagine her knowing , caring and understanding. Do you think there ARE wifes that understand and care? |
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Jennifer Site Admin
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:09 pm Post subject: |
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| yes there are, if this is something that you want to imbrace then the first step is too tell her and then see how it will work. not sure how you are able to keep this from her anyways? |
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john galt
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:36 pm Post subject: |
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| We have been married for 34 years I know how she will react. |
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