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john galt



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:27 pm    Post subject: Xdress Reply with quote

Hello, first time here. I am a closeted Cd. Am married with 2 children
I am feeling more and more wasted in my life. I feel like a low life and I shouldn't be doing what I am doing.
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sorry, just need to know what we are talking about cd is cross dresser? are in closet from your family as well?
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john galt



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 3:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crossdresser
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

what about your wife, does she know?
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john galt



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PostPosted: Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

what do you want to accomplish?
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john galt



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I want to understand where and why I get these feelings, why I do what I do and can I ever enjoy what I do in the closet.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are you under the impression that there is something wrong with you? Do you want to be able to enjoy fully who you are or want it to stop?
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john galt



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I guess, I was made to feel guilty when I was in school.
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 3:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

not the talker are you? were you forced in to getting married? do you love your wife and want to be with her?
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john galt



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PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 4:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No I was not forced into marriage, in fact my wife asked me. I do love her very much and I do want to be with her. I also would like her to understand where I am and maybe become a participant.
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PostPosted: Fri Feb 27, 2009 11:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

is that a possiblity? your wife understanding
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john galt



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 10:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I doubt it it. I guess in my mind I would like to imagine her knowing , caring and understanding. Do you think there ARE wifes that understand and care?
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yes there are, if this is something that you want to imbrace then the first step is too tell her and then see how it will work. not sure how you are able to keep this from her anyways?
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john galt



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 12:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

We have been married for 34 years I know how she will react.
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