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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 24, 2009 12:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

go for it. Very Happy
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 24, 2009 3:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Smile thank you... you seem to be very positive about life and yourself... Smile
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 11:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are two ways to be posititve or negaitve, I believe you have to choose and you can just as easily choose positive over negative.
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 1:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Smile hmmm... i guess so... Sad

its that i feel being negative gives a real pic of things rather then being positive so infact always want to be negative...
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nah, you can be a realistic optimistic person, it works for me.
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 11:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

im wasting my life...

i need to talk to someone...

m spoiling my life like anything...
one of the best relations i had i have ruined due to my nature, ego n selfishness...

everything seems useless...
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

might be time to bite the bullet and try out some counseling sessions online.
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 3:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanx
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi!

am going through another out of control situation. well had been out of town (hectic) and then rather 'over busy' with some activities for few days. After those got over m unable to get back to work and to some classes that have joint. Took rest for two days and yet unable to get back to work. Then studying at home is a far thing. I just dont know how to get hold of myself. Either sleeping or overeating. But avoiding my goals and work.
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 7:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

not sure I believe you that you do not know how, more like you do not want too. you have had to get yourself back on track numerous times in your life. what is different about this one and why are you preventing yourself from getting back on track.
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 10:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

my mind is very moody and unpredctable. at one time it wants sth and another time it wants another thing. im everytime tossed by its moods and false notions. and mostly its depressions!!! i can think of only giving excuses.
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

im getting all joyous finding breakthroughs through these complications Smile

well i realise im touchy and hence over react to small things which then effect me in a big way... and hence the overprotective nature and defensive nature... and escapist nature...

wel i wanna ask u.. what is Strength... its like i know it is but i dont know it.. since what i imagine as strengths dont really last for long.. hence i wanna know 'that' strength' that will last and protect me forever...
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Jennifer
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

then you will be stuck in this pattern until you figure out that this is not productive for you and change needs to occur
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PostPosted: Mon Feb 09, 2009 2:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmm... true... thanx so much Smile
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reenaa



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 11:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi! Jennifer,

How are you?

Alls well here. Almost Smile I want sth intense... which i want to be permanent... i dont know what.. a person or what... or maybe i want to be intense myself... but i want it and unable to get it...

regards,
R
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