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M.D.



Joined: 08 Feb 2009
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:12 pm    Post subject: I can't decide. Reply with quote
I am a female who is 15. I know I am still growing and trying to decide what is me. It is hard to, though. I feel at times that I am one person, but the next day I am another. I want one thing, but it changes to something else. I can't stay liking one thing when I really want to. Though, I got back to liking the other things that I want to move on with. I already made friends that I don't want to be friends with, anymore. But, then I do want to be friends with. I can't make my decisions and I can't move on. I don't know HOW to move on.

Any suggestions?
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Jennifer
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Joined: 27 May 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
seems as both of your posts are relating to the same topic but now i know how old you are. life is wierd sometimes and it has a funny way of showing us how to accept things and move forward. any suggestions out there on how to move forward.
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Ouroboros



Joined: 20 Sep 2009
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 6:47 pm    Post subject: Re: I can't decide. Reply with quote
M.D. wrote:
I am a female who is 15. I know I am still growing and trying to decide what is me. It is hard to, though. I feel at times that I am one person, but the next day I am another. I want one thing, but it changes to something else. I can't stay liking one thing when I really want to. Though, I got back to liking the other things that I want to move on with. I already made friends that I don't want to be friends with, anymore. But, then I do want to be friends with. I can't make my decisions and I can't move on. I don't know HOW to move on.

Any suggestions?


Pick a direction, and chase it. Keep a journal detailing how things are going with your chosen direction. If you feel like changing directions, write down why (this is important!) and think hard before doing so. That way, if at some point you feel like maybe the previous direction wasn't so bad, or was even better, you have a record that you can go back and review to help keep things in context. Just make sure to keep written records of your thoughts and decisions; otherwise, it's very very hard to go back and review based on memory alone. Memories are prone to fading and contextual interpretation based on your current mindset, and sometimes your moods can cause past motivations to be selectively "forgotten."

Just a suggestion. Smile

Edit: dang, sorry...I just noticed how old this post was. I have a tendency to not pay attention to post dates when reading through forums. My apologies.
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