Too much to handle

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[Jennifer]

I'm not sure what you sent him, but if he cares about you at all I'm sure it rocked his world and he is trying to figure out how to deal with it. Some people need more time than others to sort through things and that might be the case. I always error on the side of good instead of bad because most people are good, just don't know how to show it all the time.

You cannot do anything except wait for him to figure through this and talk to him about it when he is ready, sorry to hear you are so over loaded. did you decide whether you were going to go home or stay abroad for the summer which is fast approaching.

[Perception]

[Jennifer]

i think you need a period of not asking in order to give him some time to digest, I already told you that you need a special man that will support you through anything. if he really can't handle this he is not the guy for you, no questions asked even if he seems like he is.

You have strength that you don't even realize. It took courage to send that letter to him and if he doesn't have the same thing in him to deal with it, then you two are not a match.

Glad to hear that you won't have to deal with going home on top of everything else that is going on.

[Perception]

[Jennifer]

Yes, you will have to move on eventually or move forward. Seems as if you have held a torch for this guy for awhile and that is more the reason that you haven't had a relationship, are you thinking that you need to cut ties with him? It is hard to move forward with always in the back of your mind what if with someone. He sounds as if he was your crunch guy and that it was always easy to push guys away because you had him.

You will learn or someone will give you the time to teach you. As for myself, i thought i knew that love was, was even enaged when i was younger, but it wasn't until i met my husband did i truely understand what love is, trust me, i thought i knew, but i did not. There is a match out there for everyone and you will find yours. Focus on school and finishing out this semester in one piece, the rest will come to you.

[Perception]

[Jennifer]

at that age, especially in college all guys is want is sex , yes there is always an exception to the rule, but there is nothing wrong with being guarded and waiting for the right connection and to see if you can trust someone. NEVER give up your morals because you want to please someone else, not worth it, you might feel good for the short run, but overall you will feel worse.

You are going about it the right way and it will happen when it is suppossed too.

[Perception]

[Jennifer]

I'm sure he does want to talk to you and is just scared and doesn't know what to say. How old is he? Yes, agreed moving on is extremely hard to do but you always need to move forward in relatonships even with the same person

[Perception]

[Jennifer]

full disclosure on sports, life is easy stuff, full disclosure on someone hurting you, it is not so easy to handle and 22 is young in the way of the world, are you going to keep him in your life if he cannot talk to you about this?

[Perception]

[Jennifer]

You are an intelligent, deep individual that deserves someone who will appreciate you for you.

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