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Jennifer
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only if you want to look at it that way. It is up to you how you want to lead your married life. If that is the way you want to look at it then it will be so, if not you can make changes to include people in your life.
does your fiance have friends?? |
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smilingangel
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I am amazed by your response. Here I am feeling like a failure and you conferme it, at least thats the way I took it. I have tried to let people in, just for this, my last friend who used every part of me was going until I told her NO, I don't need to be used by her any more! Everyone that has ever got close to me, has used me and not returned the favor. I watched her kids, I took them places, I bought them food, I gave her money when she needed it, I would listen to all of her problem and try to fix them But she never did anything for me. My man didn't even like her and I still stood up for her. I am very upset!!!  My man has friends but none of his friends have girlfriends or wifes, if thats what you were getting at. SO?????????
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smilingangel
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I guess this is an automatic response form. OH well just my luck, good bye curel world...............................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
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Jennifer
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Getting angry with me is not going to help you fix your problems. You are getting married and have an opportunity to change your life and how you feel about yourself.
I wish you the best in all that you do. |
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smilingangel
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Getting married is not going to fix my problems. I don't understaind why you say this?
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Jennifer
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no, but you can use this adjustment period to think about your life differently and how you want to live it. you can literally walk over the threshold and become a new person whomever you choose to be. I woud hope that you would choose to be someone that you want to be not someone that was created from your past.
You are going to need to let go of the past in order to feel better. |
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